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Book : How to Win Friends & Influence People
Author : Dale Carnegie
Fascinating Story of How founder of Panda Express used books as a part of building the Company Culture and $10 billion enterprise.
Panda Express, founded by Andrew Cherng and his father, Master Chef Ming-Tsai Cherng, in 1983, started in Glendale, California. The concept expanded from their original sit-down restaurant, Panda Inn, opened in 1973. Andrew and his wife, Peggy Cherng, significantly contributed to the chain's growth, with Peggy implementing efficient systems and technology.
Books played a vital role in shaping the company culture. Andrew introduced the practice of encouraging employees to read and discuss books on leadership, teamwork, and self-improvement. This initiative fostered continuous learning and personal growth, creating a positive work environment. This philosophy helped Panda Express expand rapidly while maintaining a cohesive culture, making it a leading Chinese fast-food brand in the U.S.
Have I read this ?
Yes .
Recommendation
Highly recommended. Not just if you are running a business but for everything in general.
The Line I love the most from the Book.
If You Want to Gather Honey, Don't Kick Over the Beehive
Link to the Pod
Time Stamp : 36: 46
Summary of the Book
How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie is a classic self-help book that offers timeless principles for building strong relationships and influencing others positively. Here’s a summary of its key points:
Fundamental Techniques in Handling People:
Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
Give honest and sincere appreciation.
Arouse in the other person an eager want.
Six Ways to Make People Like You:
Become genuinely interested in other people.
Smile.
Remember that a person's name is, to that person, the sweetest sound in any language.
Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
Make the other person feel important—and do it sincerely.
How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking:
Avoid arguments.
Show respect for the other person's opinions.
If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
Begin in a friendly way.
Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs.
Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.
Appeal to the nobler motives.
Dramatize your ideas.
Throw down a challenge.
Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment:
Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
Let the other person save face.
Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement.
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.